Communication skills have become an indispensable factor for everyone.
When talking to people of high social status, you must maintain confidence
In history, people with high status are often wealthy people, or noble families. These people are trained in a special education from childhood, creating the temperament of a “noble person”.
In today’s modern times, these are people who have wealthy families, are educated, understand manners, and have achieved many achievements. They have a long track record of achievements to be proud of, and have experienced numerous things on their career path, so they are very respectable.
Therefore, when standing in front of such people, people will often become more timid and shy, many people will even be so shy that they cannot speak. However, if you want to show your worth, that is absolutely not something you should do.
In work interactions, encountering people with a higher status than you is inevitable, remember to be confident when dealing with them. You should not have a flattering attitude, nor should you be complacent and arrogant, keeping yourself polite, comfortable and calm. That way, no matter who the other person is, they will give you a certain amount of respect.
Talk to petty people, stay away from money
In life, there are many cases where even though we don’t like each other, we still have to appear happy and satisfied with each other. Even though you know clearly that the other person is not a nice, kind person, you still have to communicate.
When in that situation, you can only be careful with every word and action, especially not mentioning money or benefits. That can make people feel jealous, or try to take advantage of you to seek their own benefits.
When talking to wise people, be sincere
When communicating with such people, they “know it all” to the point that sometimes it makes you feel incompetent. Because they are so wise, you also feel like you are being seen inside.
These feelings are not very pleasant. The simplest way to deal with them is to treat them sincerely. Just speak your mind and show your good intentions. The other person will be wise enough to realize that, accept your good intentions and behave similarly.
People who talk behind your back, just ignore them
No one wants to be talked bad about others behind their backs. But in this life, no one can control who they will meet and what they think about them. If there is praise, there will also be criticism, if there is recognition, there will also be doubters.
When someone attacks you with criticism, it’s not because they really don’t know the truth, but because they have low self-esteem and jealousy, so they seek comfort by criticizing and attacking you.
When you meet someone like that, ignore them. When they don’t see you angry, they will get bored and leave first.
People who hurt you, stay away from them
Do you want to thank the people who hurt you? Is all that pain really necessary?
Perhaps the answer is of course “no”. But the person who hurt you didn’t do it to help you. They hurt you to destroy you and never think about what will happen if you can’t get over it.
We have survived the trauma, one way or another we will grow stronger. It all depends on your own efforts, not on anyone else and even less on the person who hurt you.
Wolves eat sheep to satisfy their needs, not to challenge or make the sheep stronger. So for people like that, there is no need to say thank you.
