Women know what sacrifice means when it comes to relationships, marriage, family. They simply do not accept the idea that some things need to wait until tomorrow to be finished because they know just how much needs to be done every day.
They do so much that they are ready to take on the world if needed for their family, for the men they love, and for the children they live for. They love fiercely and sacrifice everything they have unconditionally. They are the heroes who quietly run the world.
And if you are one of these women, then we know how every morning feels and how the thoughts of whether you will make it through the day simply tear you apart. We know how little you are appreciated for your daily feats of heroism that so many take for granted.
But how much are you, dear husband, aware of this? And yes, it is very hard to know what you can do to help her out. Perhaps the most important thing you should always bear in mind that the path of living a life together means that everything should be done together to some extent.
Everyone has their own role in the relationship, but what you need each other most for is to help each other when you fall, to support each other and stand tall together, to hold each other and never let go, to give comfort when life is too difficult to bear.
And it is very easy to help your wife out – it is the simple things full of affection that matter the most. All she needs is for you to be more aware of her sacrifices and give her the support to endure all the toils that she is going through.
1. Be mindful of what she does
It does not matter if she goes to work or stays at home. What matters is whether you are aware of what she does during the day, how much her to-do list weighs on her shoulders, and what sacrifices she does for both of you. If you do not know, all you need to do is ask her. She will appreciate your interest in her daily activities and tasks.
2. Let her talk and listen all the way through
Women like to get all their thoughts out to reset. And indeed, for a mind which is so preoccupied, getting one’s thoughts out is the best way to settle it and calm it down. Listen to her carefully, let her speak her problems and express their feelings, show empathy, ask questions. Engage yourself fully in the conversation.
3. Ask what you can do
If you see her burning out and do not know what to do about it, ask her. She will appreciate it a lot because she knows how much you love her. She loves you as well, and she appreciates every little and big thing you do for her.
4. Help Her Avoid Burnout
If you notice your wife having signs of anxiety or a short temper early on in the week, do your best to help her avoid burnout by taking on some of her responsibilities. Help her to relax by encouraging her to take a bubble bath while you do the dishes to offer a helping hand before she becomes more stressed.
5. Hold Her in Your Arms
Your wife may just need to feel safe in your arms when she’s feeling like her world is falling apart. Do your best by comforting her with physical touch, which will allow her to feel safe and at peace.
6. Give Her Alone Time
Allow your wife to work through her thoughts by giving her some time alone. Encourage her to spend a day at the spa or to go to the movies with her friends, which will help her to unwind and relax.
7. Relax Together
According to psychcentral.com, do your best to relax together when your wife is falling apart to ensure that she can become composed and allow her feelings to calm down. You can give each other a massage, watch television, or spend time in the backyard to reduce her stress levels.
8. Participate in your marriage actively
Marriage means that it takes two for everything involved in it. Parenting, running the household, making the marriage work – you should be aware that your involvement in your family life is paramount. Work is only a part of all that, and it is not an excuse to get away from chores, disciplining your children, or planning special nights for the two of you.
9. Fill her with hope
Hope is the force that drives us to do the impossible and always strive for a better tomorrow. Be her encouragement and lift her up. Help her to recognize the good in every situation. Do not be negative or critical. And when she hits rock bottom, be the one who will pull her up.
10. Buy Her a Gift
You can help your wife pull herself together again by buying her a gift that brightens her day. Opt for a piece of jewelry or a clothing item that will allow her to feel loved and appreciated.
11. Give her a day all to herself
If she has to do everything she does every day, she will never have some time for herself. Make sure you take over at least one day a week and let her spend that day doing things she would love to do for herself.
She will love going to the beauty salon, getting a haircut, a manicure, pedicure, massage, and perhaps even going shopping for some new clothes. Do not wake her up, fill up the bathtub and add some nice scents; give her some alone time. Make her feel special that day and let her know it is her day.
Reference: curiousmindmagazine.com
