Let’s face it, men do a lot of things that piss off women. Starting with being smug, controlling, excessively jealous and the list goes on. Guys, this one is for you! Find out some of the things you do that your girl might secretly dislike but won’t tell you about it.
1. Looking at your phone amidst the conversation.
If you are that guy who always checks on his phone to see the latest messages on whatsapp, Twitter, Instagram and those funny Tiktok messages while with a girl, just know she hates that so much. A woman wants full attention while you are with her. Checking on your phone too often makes her feel insecure as if you are having another lady that you are talking to.
2. Taking about your ex so often.
You are no longer with your ex, let that story rest. Don’t always talk about your ex when you are with your girlfriend or wife. Whether you are praising her or critical about her ways. Whatever the case, let stories about your ex rest. When you keep talking about your ex, whether good or bad things, a woman will always know that you are still thinking about her which makes them insecure.
3. Not Making a Move
Some women don’t mind making the first move but if a man doesn’t have the guts to make the next one she’ll be disappointed, especially cause she spurred up the courage to make that first move. A woman likes to know that you’re serious about her so if she feels that you’re not making any effort she’ll back out not to hurt herself.
4. Trying to Control Her
Women hate it when a man tries to control her life, her friends, her career and her decisions. She wants to feel equally independent and not held back to explore her own path. There’s a thin line between trying to protect someone and trying to control them. Watch out for excessive jealousy, it’s such a deal breaker so don’t over-do it.
5. Looking at another woman in their presence.
You are with the lady you claim to love, and then another woman passes by with big bums and a beautiful face and boom! You start starring at her. Bro what do you want her think? That you want to convert that lady to Christianity? When you are with a lady don’t star at other women, even if they are more cute. If you do it, do it in a style that she won’t recognize. But if she notices, then know that your days as a couple are limited you will be lamenting how all ladies are hoes when actually it’s not true!
6. Lying
And this is a big one. Some men might lie about small things because they think it will upset women. It upsets them even more to know that you’re lying so be honest. Even if she gets mad you can always make it up to her.
7. Not Talking about your Feelings
Men are not as open as women about how they feel and they tend to bury it down instead of expressing it or dealing with it. Women really appreciate a man who is not afraid to talk about how he feels, it makes her feel very special to be the only person that knows what’s behind the surface.