A Man Who Cares About You More Than He Says Will Do These Things Without Any Reluctance
1. He Texts At Random.
He’s not playing hard to get or trying to manipulate you. He has no problem reaching out first thing in the morning or later in the day. You’re not a booty call — he doesn’t have to call you after 10 p.m. or in the middle of the night. You’re on his mind all times of day.
2. He Gives You Advice.
Sure, he lets you talk, but more importantly, he gives you advice. A guy who cares will share his opinions. If he didn’t care, he’d sit and let you talk while keeping mum even if he thought you were making the wrong decision.
3. Your Opinions matter.
A man who didn’t care, wouldn’t bother to hear your opinion on anything and even actively ignore your thoughts. If you wanted Chinese food, he’d overrule you and order Italian. A guy who really likes you will value your opinions on everything. From what they should eat for dinner to what job they should apply for.
4. He Goes Out Of His Way.
He lets you choose the movie and volunteers to pick up food at your favorite restaurant (even though it’s nowhere near your apartment). He wants you to be happy, so he goes out of his way to put a smile on your face — and he does it naturally. You don’t have to beg him to spend time with you or manipulate him into caring about you.
5. He Notices Little Changes.
He notices the little things in you without you having to bring them up. That’s a sign he really cares about you. If he didn’t, he wouldn’t pay attention to the small details. Trust me, if he wasn’t obsessed, your new dye job would go completely unnoticed.
6. He Works On Problems.
Instead of leaving, he talks out problems with you and tries to find a way forward. He fights for you because he cares.
7. He Does Things You Hate
He might not quit his job to move across the country with you, but he’ll do things he wouldn’t normally. He’ll watch horror movies with you even though he hates scary stuff. He’ll go to the mall with you, even though he’d rather be at the bar with friends. He’s compromising his usual routine so he can spend time with you. That’s a sign he really cares.
8. He Takes Care Of You.
He doesn’t look at you to do all the cooking and cleaning. He steps up! He’ll make you dinner and clean the dishes up afterward (yes, you read that right). He’s a gentleman and he cares about you, which means he wants to take care of you. Even if that means swallowing his man card and bringing you breakfast in bed.
