6 Signs You Have Chosen The Wrong Partner!
1. The opinion of others does matter.
It’s one thing if mama doesn’t like your romantic interest, but if a whole lot of other family members and even your friends aren’t keen on him/her either, you may need to take a second look. Reality is that unless there is a drastic event to change their opinions, they are not going to change.
2. You’re always being criticized.
It can affect your self-esteem if it’s happening a lot. Joking is one thing. But are they jokes or ways to put you down? Good relationships inspire and support. If your mate is comparing you to others, saying your education isn’t as good as his/hers and other kinds of put-downs, this is probably not the person for you.
3. Don’t always be the one adjusting.
If you are constantly changing to make your partner happy, well, you aren’t going to be happy. If you look at yourself and say, “Yeah, I do dress like a slob,” and you want to change your style, that’s fine. Go ahead. But think… is this change about you or what your mate wants?
4. The physical relationship isn’t happening.
If you two aren’t compatible physically now, it’s going to cause problems and maybe even some cheating down the line. It all centers around how much you want and how much the other person wants. If you like a lot of physical contact, but your partner is more aloof, well, that may be a sign of trouble down the road.
5. It’s never enough.
You have to be mutually comfortable with the time that you will be together. If she likes to be with her friends a lot now, it’s not going to change when you get married. We all have things that we want to do as couples. But people also need their alone times, too.
6. You’ve lost control.
Does your partner run your schedule? Does he/she tell you who you can see and what you can do with them? If this makes you happy, then you need to stay home with mama. A healthy relationship is about coming together on each other’s wants and needs. One should not control the other’s life.
This is your life. You can share it with someone and the relationship will last a lifetime if you listen to yourself and accept no less than what you deserve.
