These Signs Show Your Man Is Not The One For You
1. You feel like you’re his mom
If this sound like a thought you’ve had, your relationship is in trouble.
There is nothing attractive about having to mother your boyfriend. Occasionally picking up after him is one thing, but if he frequently asks you to do things for him or expects you to take care of him, then he’s not right for you.
2. He doesn’t respect you
You’ll know right away that he’s not for you if he has a disrespectful attitude toward you, your friends, or your family.
Here are some warning signs that he does not treat you the way you deserve to be treated:
– Belittling your accomplishments
– Saying disparaging things
– Pushing your boundaries to get what he wants
– Trying to manipulate you
– Revealing private information about your relationship
– Talking negatively about you to others (or to you!)
3. He isn’t supportive
A loving partner is someone who celebrates your accomplishments and cheers for you to reach your goals.
You’ll know this is not the one for you if your man is someone who becomes petty, jealous, competitive, or shows little to no interest in the things that are important to you.
4. He makes you feel bad about yourself
A loving relationship should make you feel good. You should feel smart, pretty, valued, and desired.
A toxic relationship will leave you feeling sad, anxious, and resigned.
If he makes you feel uneasy or bad about yourself, he’s not right for you.
5. He doesn’t like your friends and family
If he asks you not to spend so much time with your friends or family, it could be a sign of control and manipulation.
That said, your boyfriend and close friends aren’t always going to get along, but if your man cares about you, he’ll make getting to know your loved ones a priority.
6. You don’t spend quality time together
Spending quality one-on-one time with your man is important to maintaining a happy relationship.
If you never do date nights or find your partner more interested in their phone than in your conversation, then you’ll know he’s just not right for you.
7. He has vi0lent or troubling behavior
One of the biggest signs he’s not “the one” is if he has shown troubling behavior such as grabbing you firmly when angry, hitting you, threatening you or your loved ones, or using verbal aggression to get his way.
Other troubling behavior includes addicti0ns such as drugs, alcohol, s3x, or gambling.
